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Personal Story: “A Christening Ceremony to Cement My Daughter’s Place in Our Family”

The moment I felt I became Eva’s forever mother and for Eva, adopted from the Ukraine, being my forever daughter.

By Kristen Widham

an adoptive mother writes about the ceremony she planned to christen the daughter she adopted from the UkraineWhile I possessed a secure sense of family life, my daughter Eva, adopted from the Ukraine at age three, had no idea of what family life meant. She had never even seen one in the years she lived in the children’s home. She just saw a stream of caregiving women coming and going.

Although I knew that, legally and emotionally, I would be her mother forever, I hungered for a religious blessing on our little family and on Eva’s name. I knew that the source of my yearning was more than emotional. I sought God’s blessing on our bond for all eternity, something the INS cannot give. As with a marriage ceremony, I sought a public declaration before God for being Eva’s forever mother and for Eva being my forever daughter. Since she had been baptized in her birth country, my minister fashioned a christening ceremony for us….

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